I would love to quit my low paying job, to be home with my daughter. My husband is self employed and we are considering buying or own health insurance, as I'm really only working to pay for daycare and health insurance. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I just don't know which companies I can trust.

Sure, Blue Cross/Blue Shield.

Any company that's A rated, will be fine.

But "reasonable" usually means, "less than it really costs". FAMILY coverage costs $800 to $1000 per month. That's JUST what it costs. My guess is, that's going to be "unreasonable" to you.

Maybe you should sit down with your husband's insurance agent (the guy that writes the business insurance) and look at health insurance options - major medical coverage with HSA and high deductibles, etc.

Blue Cross Blue Shield
HIP
Kaiser Permanente

None of them...
unless the VA is a posibility, you may be screwed
Or you could move to oregon (they have the Oregon health plan)