If somebody drives my car and gets a ticket for running a red light does my insurance get affected or does it automatically go on their insurance even though they were driving my car?

No. The ticket is on their license not on your car registration. A parking ticket is charged to your car registration.

no, the ticket will be put on the person who was driving's record not yours.

I dont think so.

The insurance will affect them, not you. Now if they were in your car and had an accident then your insurance would be affected. Think twice before letting others drive your cars. You don't want to be stuck paying for their mistakes. (I was!)